We Give Because They Can’t Go Without Us

Wesley Mills • Jul 12, 2016

A few years back, I heard a story by Greg Matte, pastor of First Baptist Church in Houston, that shook me to the core. He explained that his friend was throwing a surprise party for his wife’s 40 th birthday. (For the sake of this story, we will say their names are Eric and Mary.)

When Mary arrived at the house, she was shocked at all the friends who came out. Toward the end of the night, everyone went around the circle and said one word that described what Mary meant to them. Eric was the last one to say something, and everyone was waiting with bated breath to hear what he would say. He paused for a moment and then proceeded, “There are a lot of words to describe Mary, but the best one that comes to mind is ‘Mine.’”

Greg then went on to explain the Gospel analogy — that in Christ, our lives are no longer ours, but Christ’s. Everything we are, we have and we do belongs to Him. Our allegiance has eternally shifted. It is not us, but Christ who now says, “Mine.”

Our Stuff is Not Our Own

Many of us look at our lives (and things) as just that: ours. We look at what we have as ownership instead of stewardship.

But in the end, what do we really own? In writing to the church at Corinth, Paul says that even our bodies are not ours. “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that is not your own? For you have been bought with a price, therefore glorify God in your body.” ( 1 Cor. 6:19-20, NASB )

In reality, though, many of us hold our bank accounts closer than we hold our own bodies. We are attached for many reasons: our fears, our values, our hearts. These factors can drastically dictate what our monthly income goes toward.

But what if someone were to get a behind-the-curtains look into where our finances go? Would they see how much we love our stuff or how much we love our God? Would they see us as folks invested into others or ourselves? Would they see us giving to the cause of Christ or personal comfort?

Think of it like a stockbroker. If you gave a stockbroker money to invest and they decided to spend it at their leisure, you’d be pretty upset. Why? Because you entrusted that money for the advancement of your purposes, not theirs. So it is with God.

Stewarding what God gives us is not a chore for our checklist; it’s an opportunity to join God in redeeming the world. God doesn’t need us, He wants us. The fact that we get to join in is a privilege, not a duty. And the ways in which we join Him give us the opportunity to pause, submit and trust that God knows better than us on how to use H is things.

The Lord’s purpose is to see the nations come and worship Him. That purpose is accomplished by His means, and His means are us .

“How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent?” ( Romans 10:14-15, ESV , emphasis mine)

And how are they sent? With the call of Jesus on their lives and the support of the body. Prayer and resources are essential in crossing cultures in the 21 st century.

Giving to Missions is Not Just About Money

Maybe your feet are not those that will personally walk toward others with the Good News across the globe, but maybe you can be the ones that help get other fe et on a plane, help them feed their family and sustain their ministry goals and needs.

Here are five things you’re giving to when you invest into the life of a missionary.

1. The vision. The vision of cross-cultural workers is the vision of John in Revelation — where every tribe and tongue and people are dancing and singing and rejoicing around the throne. We give because we cannot wait for the day where all nations worship the God of all nations.

2. The mission. Your support invests in the strategic methods that are bringing the kingdom. Is it church planting ? Caring for creation ? Development of the local community and local leaders ? We give to missions because we know that God is in the process of restoring all things, and the work of cross-cultural ministry is restoration of the physical and the spiritual.

3. The indigenous church. The body is made up of believers, not buildings. Giving financially allows the gospel to spread from culture to culture , with local leaders in local languages preaching the Word, drinking the cup and meeting the needs of the world. We send because we care about our Filipino brothers and Chinese sisters and cannot wait to worship with them together, forever.

4. The lost. “And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and the Spirit of God.” ( 1 Cor. 6:11, ESV ) We send because we, too, were lost. We send because we want the lost to be found.

5. The sent ones . When you love and care for someone, you support them, you get behind them, you sacrifice for them. Your support says, “I believe in you. I am for you.” Putting our feet to the pavement says that our words mean something and that eternal life is at stake.

We give because we are on the same team. We give because they can’t go without us.

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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