How God Connected Displaced Teenagers, a Missionary Kid and a Stick of Gum

Suzanne Pearson • Feb 11, 2022

Imagine the scene: three hundred children and teens fleeing for their lives. They live in a region continually ravished by a war that began decades before they were born. Some sojourn as orphans, others sent away by desperate parents hoping for a better life for them – a life protected from the resident evil and horrendous dangers of their homeland.

God in His mercy leads this vulnerable band of young wanderers, teenagers leading and caring for the youngest among them, into the jungles of a neighboring nation. He gives them sanctuary and a new start in a place with mountains and dense vegetation to protect them, a water source to sustain them, and the will to find a future and a hope.

A Plan and A Purpose

This is the story that TEAM Global Worker Laura Jordan* and her family encountered while on assignment in Southeast Asia . Laura and her family had only been in country for a few months when they learned of the remarkable place that she refers to as a “Children’s Hostel,” where roughly 300 displaced children took shelter and began making a life there, with only a few adults helping to care for them. Trained as a nurse , Laura was eager and excited to visit the children and see how she and her family could minister to them.

When that opportunity came, Laura says she was, “as excited as a little girl on Christmas morning. My mind was racing…What if they don’t want us there? What if it’s more than I can handle? Will they know I come in love and not with a Western agenda?” The Lord quickly answered her with the peace only He can give, assuring her that He has a plan and a purpose in her journey.

So bright and early that morning, Laura and her 6-year-old son Jonah made the several-hour drive through winding, mountainous terrain to the hostel. The compound includes several structures, including dormitories, an eating hall, and a clinic. But what struck Laura the most was meeting the teenagers. “The kindness in their eyes was unexpected,” Laura says. “I could just feel the warmth and hospitality.”

Children eating lunch at the hostel.

The children at the hostel are building a new life after escaping war and devastation.


“Teacher, Will You Come Back?”

As Laura continued to interact with the children , she was even more impacted by their incredible courage. “These children want to learn how to care for their new community,” she notes. “They don’t have the expectation that we will come in and make everything better. These children want a future, and they are fighting for it!” Laura began training some of the older girls to care for the sick and to use the medical supplies that she brought.

A teenage girl named Lin has taken on much of the responsibility for the children’s medical care, despite no formal training. At the close of their visit, Lin asked Laura, “Teacher, will you come back? I want to learn to help my people. Today, Teacher, I have learned so much.” Laura reassured her that, yes, they would be back. “We will seek the wisdom and will of our Father and come back to serve.”

Worker doing well checks at the children's hostel

Laura uses her skills as a nurse not only to treat the children directly but also to train the older teens in basic medical care.


Planting Gum and Planting Seeds

It wasn’t just Laura that the Lord chose to weave into this story. He had work to do in and through young Jonah as well. Although Laura had reservations about bringing Jonah along, he wanted to come, as he said, because “the Son loves these kids and He wants to be their friend.” Jonah got carsick on the trip and was also feeling quite nervous when they first arrived. But as he prayed with his mom for God to help him be “brave and friendly,” the walls began to come down.

Jonah followed Laura as she went about her nursing duties, stopping her at one point to ask if he could pray for the sick children he saw all around them. Laura shares, “There, in a small hostel filled with 300+ kiddos, the Father was opening sweet Jonah’s eyes to why we were there. He was answering my petition to ‘let [my children] see why You’ve called us here.’”

Laura shares another story of how Jonah processed what he was experiencing. After he and his mom visited the children’s dorms, Jonah pulled out a piece of chewing gum and began digging a small hole to plant it in the ground. Curious, Laura asked what he was doing. Jonah explained that he wanted to make sure all the kids could have gum, and he thought if he planted a piece, it would grow, and they’d have plenty to go around! Jonah’s “gum tree” might not come to fruition, but there seems no doubt that Jonah and his mom, led by the Holy Spirit, are planting seeds that will equip the Children’s Hostel to grow and thrive physically and spiritually.

Young boy planting gum.

Jonah’s heart is as big as his smile, and he prays every night for his new friends.


Praying for Ten Faithful Leaders

Laura says that her “hope and prayer is that ten leaders will rise up from this hostel to take on the responsibility of learning and caring for their new community.” These ten leaders need to be “willing to follow the Son and teach others to do so as well.” She continues, “We are seeking Him daily for ways to teach that empower the children in sustainable ways and that bring glory to the Father.”


*Names have been changed for security reasons.

To learn more about how you can support the children’s hostel visit give.team.org/hostel.

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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