Minorities in Missions: When You’ve Never Fit in Anywhere

Leslie Lesher suzanne.pearson • Dec 18, 2019

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Recently, I was at a missions conference where I joined a seminar on Latina women in leadership. One of the participants, a first-generation American with Hispanic background made a comment that struck me.

She said, “ I feel called to go serve in Japan, but if I don’t fit in here in America where I was born because I’m a minority, how much harder will it be to fit in, in a different country?

As a missions coach , I have a list of different reasons why people choose not to go overseas: fear of the unknown, student debt, not being good at language learning, not wanting to leave family, etc.

This one was not in my repertoire.

So, I talked with some of our missionaries to hear about their experiences. I found out that being a minority in missions comes with a set of challenges — but it also comes with real advantages . Here’s what our missionaries had to say.

Facing Your Fears

“As an African-American, minority woman with a husband with European roots and three biracial children, I was fearful about how we would be accepted into a church planting team in Germany ,” says TEAM missionary Beth Chadwick

But in the midst of her fear, Beth thought of the Israelites. God continually encouraged them to remember what He had done for them and how He had provided . Likewise, Beth had to remember past times when she had this concern and how the Lord faithfully reassured her that “ God is writing my family’s story and I could trust His good hand and kind heart.

“There have been times when I and my children have not been treated well in the general public or in their schools because of our skin color, and those have been hard times and hard conversations to have. The truth is, injustice and prejudice exist throughout the entire world.” says Beth

Over time, Beth has learned to shift her perspective to realize that even in those hard times, God is at work. It’s taken a lot of prayers and tears for that perspective shift to happen. But she’s started noticing that when someone is rude to her or her kids, within that same day, God will send someone to do or say something unexpectedly kind. “Sweet reminders that He moves the heart of men and He is sovereign.”

Beth also suggests thinking back on your story and how God has used your status as a minority to tell His story. “Keep a journal so that you can remember when it gets hard,” Beth says.

Jorge Diaz, Hispanic missionary to South Asia says, “I had to learn to be secure in my identity. Knowing that I am loved by God and that God has a purpose for me has really helped.”

But, Jorge says, it will be a process of getting to know God, growing your identity in Him, dying to self and learning how to use the special gifts God has given you.

Growing up as a minority can trigger a lot of insecurities and fear, but remembering who God is and who we are in Him helps missionaries steadily overcome fears about going overseas as minorities.

Three friends stand and talk.

Going to the mission field can bring up insecurities for a lot of people, but even more so for people who have always been made to feel like outsiders.

Advantages of Minority Missionaries

Joe and Meli were born in Korea, moved to America when they were children, and now serve as missionaries in East Asia. They believe the experience of being a minority actually gives a tremendous edge when it comes to cross-cultural missions.

“A lot of the things that had to be taught to others, such as acuteness to cultural differences, are merely instincts for those of us who have assimilated from one culture into another,” Joe says

Jorge says growing up as a Latino in America taught him how to live in a state of not belonging. But growing up in two cultures also taught him to love all places, languages, foods and cultures.”

Jorge believes minorities are like third culture kids : “We really are not part of one culture, but we have learned to function in all of them.”

Growing up as minorities teaches missionaries how to interact well with different cultures from a young age. And it sometimes even allows them to grow up speaking two languages.

These skills carry on to the field, which allows for better assimilation of the new culture and faster learning.

Living Like Our Faith Ancestors

Ultimately, Meli says, “People who have been minorities have the first-hand experience of what it is like to live like our forefathers of faith lived, not only in theory but in real life.” She recalls Hebrews 11 , saying, “Our faith ancestors have lived their whole lives ‘admitting that they were foreigners and strangers on earth, … longing for a better country — a heavenly one.’ After all, all citizens of heaven are minorities on this earth.”

We have to remember that this world is not our home, and that God is sovereign over all, even our ethnicity. He created all of us uniquely and He will use all of who we are for His purposes.

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By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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