What Do College Grads Have in Common with Retirees?

Brianna Langley • Sep 11, 2018

A recent college graduate, a young married couple and a nearly retired couple wouldn’t typically have a lot in common.

Gen Z-ers are just starting their careers and learning how to live as independent adults. Millennials are navigating buying houses, settling down and maybe even starting a new family. Baby Boomers are considering what life looks like after retirement and trying to decide how they will spend their post-career years.

And yet, they do share one big thing: God is using them in short-term missions.

A Couple with a House, Careers — and a Calling

Going on a short-term mission trip after you’ve settled down with a spouse, a house and a career would just be impractical, right?

Rachel and Brandon Maston would beg to differ.

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Rachel and Brandon Maston were newly married and looking forward to starting their life together when God began to open their hearts to missions work. Photo courtesy of the Mastons.

The Mastons weren’t planning on being missionaries . Rachel is a graphic designer by trade. Brandon is a photographer and video producer. But a year after they got married, Brandon read David Platt’s book, Radical .

“There were a lot of thoughts that just kind of lit up in my mind that, you know, that this is possible,” Brandon says, “and this is what God calls us to do, is to actually have a ministry and go out and be part of something.”

So, Brandon began researching mission agencies. When he found TEAM , he and Rachel were struck by how eager everyone was to help them find a way to use their talents.

Brandon’s company was supportive of their decision to serve abroad for some time. And Rachel was thankful for the chance at a fresh start in her career. But they had no idea what they’d do with their house for the eight months they’d be gone.

Eventually, they decided that no matter what happened, they were definitely going to go. And that’s when God provided.

One of their pastors had a relative who needed somewhere to stay but only for a short amount of time.

“So, we met up with her and talked through it,” Rachel said. “And it worked out perfectly that she needed a place to stay, and nine months or so to stay there, and we had a place for her to stay.”

Six months later, Brandon and Rachel were living and serving in La Paz, Mexico.

Their primary ministry was to support long-term ministries through video production and graphic design. They created materials to help with fundraising and awareness campaigns.

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In Mexico, Rachel and Brandon used their videography and graphic design skills to make resources for long-term missionaries. Photo courtesy of the Mastons.

But they also joined a Monday night Bible study and integrated themselves in the Mexican community through biking and other activities. By participating in these things, they not only used their skills but also got to share Jesus with the people around them.

“The Mastons left behind videos and brochures that we will be using far into the future. The professionalism in their work was exceptional,” says long-term TEAM missionary Steve Dresselhaus. “The eternal value of their work will be seen in the quick and easy way they made friends. They immediately became part of our Monday night group.”

Both Brandon and Rachel are grateful for the chance to make a long-term difference for the Lord’s global ministry in just eight months.

“God doesn’t call people who have their lives all put together. But by making you go, He puts your life together in a way that’s going to be glorifying to Him, if you’re just available and willing, ” Rachel says.

College Grad Finds Unexpected Future

Stacey* was just a college student, but she thought she did have her life figured out. She was getting her degree in political science, and she was going into the foreign service.

But when she attended an extra credit lecture led by a TEAM missionary, she was intrigued. How did this guy know so much about Islam and Muslim culture ?

Later, she got a call from TEAM missions coach Tasha Eckenhoff. Tasha had seen Stacey’s name on the sign-in list at the lecture and wanted to get together.

Okay, that’s fine, Stacey thought. I’m not going to do missions, but we can get coffee.

A year and a half of friendship later, Tasha told Stacey about a short-term missions opportunity in North Africa through a program is called LAUNCH Intensive.

LAUNCH is designed for short-termers to see if they would be able to thrive on the mission field long-term. The idea excited Stacey — but she soon found out the program is very competitive.

Well, I’ll apply, Stacey thought. But nothing is ever going to come of it.

“And then, it happened,” she says later. “And I think it was probably one of the most influential … experiences I’ve had.”

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For recent college graduate Stacey, a short-term missions trip to North Africa changed her worldview – and future plans. Photo courtesy of Stacey.

Stacey thought she knew what she wanted to do with her life. But on that trip to North Africa, God opened her eyes to a people group and culture that she fell in love with.

“We’ve gone to every other part of the world expecting to live out our days there, in order to share the Gospel with those people. And for whatever reason, we haven’t done that with Muslims the way I think they deserve,” Stacey says. “And that just breaks my heart because they’re incredible people. And they have huge hearts. And they want to love you, and they want to care for their families just like the rest of us. And for some reason, we’ve kind of determined that they don’t deserve that.”

Stacey’s post-graduation plan now is to serve the Muslim diaspora in Europe mid-term. Then maybe even long-term.

All because of one college lecture — and one short-term experience.

Going Short-Term in Their Golden Years

It’s one thing to serve overseas as a college grad. But with grandchildren to spoil and finances to consider, serving overseas after retirement seems like a whole other thing.

But it’s more than possible.

David and Jan Fitzgerald are soon-to-be retirees who pastor a multicultural church in Colorado Springs.

It started with a group of Vietnamese refugees in the 90s. Then came Latin Americans. Then Chinese immigrants. And now, 34 years after they first planted the church, the Fitzgeralds find themselves surrounded by internationals.

So they decided to put their intercultural skills to use by serving God overseas on a short-term trip.

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Jan and David Fitzgerald didn’t let their life stage stop them from seeing what the Lord might have in store for them in Taiwan — possibly for years to come. Photo courtesy of the Fitzgeralds.

“We’re constantly thinking about people that come here from other countries, what they’re going through, their experience of life here, and the challenges of it,” says David. “And that, actually, probably helps us a little bit when we go overseas to realize a little bit of what they’re facing when they come to live here.”

They set their sights on Asia, and David learned to speak Mandarin. When they heard about TEAM’s short-term opportunity in Taiwan , they jumped at the chance.

“We got an opportunity both to experience Taipei as well as other scenery,” David said. “But we also got an opportunity to see what TEAM is doing in Taiwan, in terms of church planting and ministry , both in Taipei and other places as well on the island.”

They also visited Trailblazer Camp — a ministry that the long-term team in Taiwan uses to reach local children.

“Sometimes, we tend to mix up our culture with Christianity. And [short-term trips] give us a bigger view of the world and of what God is doing,” David said. “There are Christians on the other side of the world that serve the Lord. And they don’t look like I look. And they don’t eat what I eat. And they don’t always behave the same way that I behave. And that’s okay.”

Now, the Fitzgeralds are considering moving to Asia long-term to pursue ministry.

The One Commonality

Being a long-term missionary isn’t for everyone, even if you have a passion for global missions. But with short-term missions, people of all life stages can make an impact for long-term work.

And even though the Mastons, Stacey and the Fitzgeralds have a lot of differences, they do have one important commonality: God can use them in short-term missions.

And He can use you.

*Name changed.

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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