Making Disciples who Make Disciples

Heidi Chupp • Jan 14, 2022

When Stuvan read the message from a colleague introducing him to Balraj, a church planter asking for discipleship, he paused before answering.

It could have been a no brainer. Stuvan, a south Asian TEAM missionary, is passionate about mentoring national workers in foundational Christian beliefs.

Instead, he took the time to ask questions, do research and pray for guidance.

Was Balraj serious about serving God and about being trained? Was he faithful?

Did Balraj have the time for discipleship with Stuvan? Was he available?

And was Balraj willing to learn? Was he teachable?

“I really wanted to make sure,” Stuvan says.

Before Discipleship, and After Discipleship

Stuvan remembers what his own life was like before he was discipled, and what a transformative process that was.

He and his wife, Amara, were already fully engaged in ministry in Thailand , working among south Asians from a variety of nations who had come to find employment and support their families back home.

The organization they were previously with placed a heavy value on establishing churches but very little focus on discipleship. Stuvan gradually began to see how problematic this paradigm was.

If a pastor was never given the opportunity to learn and apply Jesus’ teachings, wondered Stuvan, how could he be expected to teach his church members? He took a step back from his church planting activities to pursue discipleship.

Then, when he and Amara joined TEAM, trusted co-workers spent time coaching him, showing him what it practically looked like to love and serve Jesus.

It was a turning point, and one that set the trajectory of his life.

And when that season of discipleship was over, he realized it was time for him to do the same.

“Now it’s my turn to disciple others,” Stuvan says.

Faithful, Available, Teachable

A few weeks after Stuvan was first introduced to Balraj, Stuvan had the answers to his questions.

Balraj was indeed serious. He was already active and committed in his church-planting work, even though he’d never been discipled.

Balraj had already made time to repeatedly contact Stuvan, and it was clear he would be available to meet for training.

And would Balraj be teachable? That question was answered in the numerous texts Stuvan had received from Balraj that said in essence, “I am ready to learn from you.”

So Stuvan agreed to disciple Balraj.

“He already had the desire to serve the Lord,” Stuvan remembers, “but he just didn’t know how to do it.”

Making Disciples who Make Disciples

Despite the global pandemic, Stuvan's discipleship efforts are producing mature believers all across Asia.

Despite the global pandemic, Stuvan’s discipleship efforts are producing mature believers all across Asia.

Over the last few years, Stuvan has been mentoring five men, all from different south Asian countries, whom he met through his and Amara’s ministry.

“One of our goals is to raise national leaders ,” says Stuvan.

Due to the global pandemic, their connections these days are all online, but Stuvan says that’s just a small part of what discipleship is all about. Doing life together is priority.

“For me, discipleship is not teaching,” he says, “but discipleship is living it out and showing them, like Jesus did for his disciples.”

One of Stuvan’s mentees spent more than a year with Stuvan and Amara before returning to his home country. Stuvan invited him to be part of their daily life and ministry, teaching primarily by example. The only time he was not with Stuvan was when he slept!

“Now,” says Stuvan, “I don’t really have to do much.”

The man he discipled is now mentoring and training others. And that’s Stuvan’s entire goal.

“That is what I want them to see,” he says, “that they can also put that effort to their own disciples.”

Learning, then Living it Out

Currently, Stuvan has been meeting with Balraj every week over Zoom, and he has plans for in-person connection once the pandemic restrictions ease.

It’s only been a few months since Stuvan began his discipleship work with Balraj, but in that space of time Balraj is already sharing what he’s learning with others.

And now that Balraj understands the value of discipleship , he wants to go back to some of the churches he established and offer that same training to the believers there.

“He’s been very effective,” says Stuvan. “One of his colleagues also wants to learn from me.”

A Global Church Effort

As Stuvan looks to the future and where he wants to invest his energies, he’s putting his passion for discipleship into establishing an accredited Bible college, to convey these principles to a larger group than he could do on his own.

It’s a vision that’s multi-site and multi-nation, and it involves a global Church effort.

Instead of national workers having to leave their ministry work, cross borders and navigate different cultures just to attend Bible college, Stuvan wants to bring the Bible college to them. He’s setting up a number of centers in different south Asian countries where seminary-trained TEAM missionaries, whose ministries are nearby, will come to teach and share their own experiences.

Growing and Maturing

While Stuvan isn’t driven by the numbers of churches or the pace at which they are established, he does see evidence of spiritual growth.

Even in the midst of a global pandemic, says Stuvan, in every Asian nation where he has a disciple, churches are developing and church members are maturing in their faith.

“We are just rejoicing,” he says. “It’s not us who is doing it. It’s them, with the Lord.”

By Megan Lunsford 23 Apr, 2024
When seeking to serve cross-culturally with an authentic love for others, there’s no better example for us than Jesus. If we sat around a table and threw out the question, “How do we love like Jesus?” I think we would have several commonalities as we respond. For example, Jesus loved all people right where they were. He loved those who were deemed the least, those hardest to love, or those who were His enemies. These are all beautiful realities of the heart of Jesus. When we step into relationships, it can be easier to take on the warmer, more gracious gestures of Jesus’ love, especially in cross-cultural relationships. Think about it––when doing life with those who look and act differently than us, we are already out of our comfort zones and would rather keep things as simple and familiar as possible. But there are other facets of Jesus’ heart we often overlook that can transform us and others even more into His likeness. Jesus is love because God is love. Everything Jesus did was out of love; it’s the mere definition of who He is. As followers of Jesus, He calls us to the same: “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.” (1 John:7-12) Every display of love we offer to others is an opportunity for them to encounter the ultimate love of the Father. That’s a pretty big deal! In this article, we’ll look at three expressions of Jesus’ love that we tend to overlook when engaging others cross-culturally. (Next month, we’ll look at three more.) 1. Jesus loved sacrificially. Everywhere Jesus went, crowds followed Him. We even see times in Scripture where Jesus had plans to step away for time alone but those who were hurting found Him and He had compassion on them and stayed with them. Can you imagine rarely having any time to yourself but, instead, constantly being surrounded by crowds of people wanting help from you? Jesus loved sacrificially. He welcomed all who came to Him with love and compassion, never turning anyone away. “When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36) In the same way, we can make room in our lives for Jesus to bring sacrificial interruptions which, in His eyes, are orchestrated encounters to transfer His love to others. It can be tempting to be so “on mission” that we are full steam ahead and find ourselves frustrated when the Holy Spirit sends an interruption into our path that we feel we don’t have time for. Or, perhaps, we have scheduled a meet-up but it’s the norm in another culture to be 30 minutes or an hour late. We anxiously think through how it will affect whatever we have planned next. While it’s normal to feel a little stressed, what if the very "interruption” standing in front of you was really a divine appointment sent by God? Or what if that person running late experiences how peaceful and gracious you are in adapting to their culture and therefore, they can encounter a beautiful display of Jesus’ love? To truly represent Christ, we should remain ready and willing for each assignment the Lord sends into our path, no matter the cost or how much we will have to re-route our day. He is always a hundred steps ahead and will work all things for His glory and our good. 2. Jesus loved by discerning each situation well. Think about how many situations Jesus had to respond to on a daily basis. We read in Scripture that there were lines of people waiting to be healed by Him, talk to Him, hear His teachings, or simply touch the hem of His robe. Jesus was fully dependent on His Father to discern each situation before addressing it. “Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner.” (John 5:19) Another temptation we can have when in a relationship with those God has sent us to is to think we already know the solution or what God wants to do before we’ve even asked Him. We believe we are full of knowledge, so we just pull from the bank we have stored within and go with it. However, when we access what is familiar to us as our default, we risk missing out on a God-given solution that might truly be the key to unlocking whatever challenge is in front of us. What does this look like when interacting with others? We can simply ask, “God, what is on Your heart for the person standing in front of me?” Then we listen and respond as He speaks. When we make it a daily habit to pause and hear God’s heart for each situation before responding, we are guaranteed to be effective in loving those around us. He knows the heart of every person that will cross our paths. Imagine how impactful we can be if we first lean on His wisdom and discernment before moving forward. 3. Jesus loved by speaking truth. Most of us are familiar with the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. If we are honest, this conversation makes us a bit nervous as none of us would be comfortable with Jesus calling out intimate details of our lives that we would prefer to hide. But Jesus went further than just airing her dirty laundry. He offered her the hope of the Gospel and a relationship with Him - a divine fulfillment that could never be found in an earthly relationship. Jesus modeled a powerful example of loving others well cross-culturally. He took the low place and spoke truth, truly out of love––speaking to her heart from His. Like Jesus, our goal in sharing the truths about Him and His Word is to bring hope and satisfaction through Him alone. When we speak truth from Scripture, we are calling others higher into all God has for them. The tricky part here is we should avoid speaking truth if it isn’t first fueled by compassion. If it merely comes from a place of judgment, condemnation, or self-righteousness, it will fall flat 100% of the time. But if it truly comes from love, you are likely to not only win a heart back to the Father but, like the story of the Samaritan woman, even an entire village! If you see someone living outside of God’s best for their lives, ask God to show you your heart before engaging theirs. Once your heart is properly postured, you can speak truth out of an overflow of God’s love and trust Him for a transformation in their lives.
By Suzanne Pearson 16 Apr, 2024
TEAM Canada provides warm welcome and trusted friendships for diaspora populations living far from their native countries. As TEAM Canada workers Peter and Ruth (names changed) drive from their home to a nearby community center, they pass numerous apartment buildings and townhouses. Most of the families who live there are immigrants. They’ve left their countries of origin due to political unrest, trauma, and other difficulties. They’ve left family, friends, homes, jobs, and personal wealth behind. They search for peace, justice for the oppressed, and rest from fear and weariness. And as they adjust to a new country and a new language, they are often very isolated from others around them. “The sad reality is most immigrants are never even invited inside a Canadian home,” says Ruth. Peter and Ruth and their team try to change that reality. For the last nine years, the team, which includes workers from partner organizations as well as volunteers, has held English classes at the community center. Three days a week, over 60 students from more than 20 countries come together to learn English as well as to fellowship together and receive practical help in assimilating to a new normal. Meeting Needs and Building Trust That practical help may come in the form of procuring furniture, clothes, or dishes for newcomers, assistance with creating a resume and finding a job, or teaching people how to navigate Canadian laws and the medical system. As these tangible needs are met, relationships are built. “We invite them into our homes for meals and games,” Ruth shares. “We take them on hiking trips, picnics, outings, and out for coffee.” This is particularly important in this type of ministry because most immigrants come to Canada from cultures that value hospitality. Conversely, Canadians do not typically prioritize hospitality and consequently many newcomers feel lonely and isolated. Inviting folks to various gatherings and outings allows the team to spend extended time hearing people’s stories, struggles, hopes, and dreams. When she speaks about building friendships, Ruth’s heart for the people she serves is evident. “Hearing their stories, it’s easy to love them, and many have become close friends,” Ruth says. “We recognize the value of steady one-on-one relationships.”
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